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Annual Christmas Letters:

 

Christmas 2001

 

Happy Holidays

 

In most ways, 2001 has been a normal year for us, some things have changed and some things have remained the same.

 

Among the things that remained the same, Max and Kerri still head off to work each morning and Kylene heads off to school. Max still spends most Saturdays at his airplane hanger and Sundays are his honey-do days. Kerri still spends her Saturdays on laundry and household chores and her Sundays attempting to keep Max moving on the honey-do projects. Kylene spends most of her time trying to get away from homework and to be off somewhere with her many friends (which includes too many boys, I’m afraid) and Scott still lives with us and spends most of his free time at the computer.

 

Max’s dad was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s more than a year ago and is continuing to do as well as we have been told to expect. His memory loss appears to be somewhat slowed and under control with one medication and some of the agitation that he had been feeling is now under control with another kind of medication. With the help of the pills, Mom seems to be coping OK with Dad’s care and, in general, they are doing well.

 

Among the changes in our lives this year was the burglary of our home. Insurance covered most of what was taken but the biggest loss was our sense of security. It will take a long time to recover that.

Another change is the effects of 9/11 on Max’s employer, Boeing. Although about 15,000Boeing employee’s have already been told to leave (unfortunately, just before Christmas) and another 15,000 or so are expected to go next year, Max is on the military side of the company and his division seems to be getting even more work than before. In addition, Max assumed his duties when supervisor, Bob Mckee, retired last April and after a long delay due to some office politics, was finally promoted to the management position in October. The new job’s not as much fun as the old one but the extra pay helps.

 

This November brought a very positive change for Kerri. In the process of selling his business, Kerri’s boss moved her out of his home office and into a new building while he continues to work from his house until the new company eventually takes over his accounts. With no boss looking over their shoulders and the two of them alone in the office, work for Kerri and her friend Terri has gone from being a real drag to an ‘almost’ pleasant experience (note the emphasis on the word, almost).

 

Son Scott didn’t fair so well near the end of 2001. His dot com employer finally met its’ demise and he’s been out of work since early November. He was given a fair amount of severance pay and is collecting unemployment so he is getting by but this is not a good time of year to be looking for a job.

 

The changes to Kylene’s life include a new part-time job. Former neighbor and friend, Jeep Keyser bought a pizza parlor about 2 blocks from our house and Kylene really enjoys working there 2 or 3 days a week.  Kylene also spent over a month this summer at her aunt Karmen’s in Onawa , Iowa .

 

Although Max graduated from Meridian High School (Sanford, Michigan) in 1964, he missed that reunion so, in July, he flew back to Michigan for a few days to sneak in on the “class of 1966” gatherings. He thinks that he had a better time than anyone there because it had been more than 35 years since he had seen any of those great kids from way back when.

 

While Max was in Michigan, Kerri’s sister Karmen drove Kylene to Kerri’s and Karmen’s home town of Cheyenne, Wyoming, while Kerri and Scott drove up at the same time to meet with her and pick up Ky. Kerri had a good visit with brother Richard and his wife Sandy who still live in Cheyenne and they all spent some time at Cheyenne’s Frontier Rodeo days, and haunting old haunts and reliving old lives.

 

Of two short vacations we all took together this year, one was a 4 day trip to Karmen’s house in Onawa to celebrate Thanksgiving and Mom’s 95th Birthday. Most of Kerri’s family was able to make the trip, the weather was very good (for Iowa ) and we all had lots of good food and a very good visit. We were a little concerned about air travel to Iowa , especially on a holiday week, but it turned out to be not much trouble at all. The other get-away was just a very pleasant long weekend in a cabin in the mountains a couple hours northeast of Phoenix .

 

All in all, even though there were a few bumps in the road, our trip through 2001 was a pretty good one and we are hopeful that our travels through the next year and beyond will just get better and better.  

Have a very, very Merry Christmas and a Happy, Happy New Year!

Love to you all,

Max, Kerri, Scott & Kylene

 

 

Christmas 2002

Happy Holidays,

 

It seems that it was just a week ago that I finished last year’s Christmas letter. Sure was a busy week though with quite a few happenings both small and large.

 

As with most years, some things remained the same. Max, Kerri and Scott still head off to work each morning and Kylene heads off to school. Max still spends most Saturdays at his airplane hanger and Sundays are his honey-do days. Kerri still spends her Saturdays on laundry and household chores and her Sundays attempting to keep Max moving.

 

Dad’s mental health as a result of Alzheimer’s continues it’s slow deterioration. Fortunately, he still recognizes all of us when we visit. Physically, he hasn’t changed much except he has developed a shaking in his right arm as a side affect of the medication.  Mom still seems to be coping OK with Dad’s care and, in general, they are still doing well.

 

Max’s management job at Boeing is going OK and, even though Boeing continues its’ layoffs (about 30,000 by years end, I think), his department has been hiring many new software engineers to meet the requirements of several ongoing and new contracts. Although Max had one big project that took 5, 12 hour day 7 day weeks, most of his work has been pretty steady and routine.

 

What Kerri thought would continue be an improvement in her work situation a year ago last November (when the company was taken over by a new owner) has turned out to be not so good.  She’s still trying to figure out what to do about it.

 

2002 began better than 2001 ended for son Scott. He was able to find a new job early this year at the Scottsdale Culinary Institute, a school for fancy chefs, and is now their Computer System Network Administrator. In his spare time, he is also taking computer system classes at Mesa Community College and has been doing very well.  The rest of his free time was spent at his computer or with friends. He is still living at home but thinks his financial situation has improved enough that he may move out again in the near future.

 

Daughter Kylene left her part time job and had a pretty uneventful summer. She spent most of it just “hangin’ “with her friends. She was struggling again in school this fall so her mom moved her to a nearby Charter school where she is doing much better. A senior this year, she may even graduate from High School a few months early, in February.

 

Max, Kerri and Kylene took their annual 4 day trip to Kerri’s sister Karmen’s house in Onawa , Iowa to celebrate Thanksgiving and her mom’s 96th Birthday. Except for

brother Richard and his family, most of Kerri’s kinfolk were able to make the trip. The weather was cold this time but we all had lots of very good food and many very good visits.

 

Max accompanied his mom and dad to Michigan in July for a Bishop family reunion. Brothers Roger and Richard were also able to make it on separate flights and we all stayed at brother Randy’s house for the 8 days that we were there. Max could only recognize a fraction of the attendees but the reunion was a great time for everyone to renew old family ties.

 

Randy and wife Linda were great hosts and were able to gather a bunch of old friends and neighbors together for a nearly day long cook out and drink-fest. Max, Roger and Richard did what they could to run around and meet and say hello to friends and acquaintances that they hadn’t seen in years. A special treat was when the Burgess’s, who own the house on Eastman Road that Dad built, were very kind and gave Max, Mom and Dad a tour to show us the impressive changes and improvements to the house and the yard that they have made over the years.

 

We are glad that, for the most part, this year turned out to be better than last and are hoping for even better times in 2003 for all of us and for you and yours.

Have a very, very Merry Christmas and a Happy, Happy New Year,

Love to you all,

 

 

Christmas 2003

 

Happy Holidays,

 

It’s been an eventful year. Not all of the events have been welcome but life, being somewhat of a gamble, often gives us no choice but to play with the cards that we are dealt.

 

Dad’s Alzheimer’s disease had been progressing slowly and was mostly manageable but this summer, he began to have unexpected heart problems. With a short stay in the hospital, we thought that the problems were sort of under control until, over a period of about a week or so, he started to have swallowing difficulties, became weak and died suddenly in mid July.

 

It’s been a rough experience for all of us of course, but fortunately for Mom, brother Roger’s retirement from the Post Office this spring has made it possible for him to stay with her and help her to make the enormous adjustment to Dad’s loss. As he would have wished, Dad is buried in the Veteran’s Memorial Cemetery in North Phoenix.

 

Brother Patrick and wife Raynee moved here from Florida a few years ago and we were sad when they made the decision to sell their house and when Raynee moved to North Carolina to be with daughter Tracy, husband John and the two grandkids. Patrick has just recently left his work here in Arizona to be with them.

 

We were fortunate to get Kerri’s mom to come and stay with us from October until the Thanksgiving holiday when we took her home for the annual Kranz gathering. We had a very pleasant celebration of her 97th birthday while she was here. Unfortunately, during our visit at sister Karmen’s in Onawa, Iowa over Thanksgiving, Mom Kranz also developed pneumonia and heart problems and ended up in the hospital. She is home now under a nurse’s care but, although hopeful, we are fearful of the consequences of that event.

 

The year’s remaining events were, thankfully, much less traumatic.

 

Max’s job at Boeing is going OK and, as with last year, even though Boeing continues its’ layoffs in the commercial aircraft divisions, the Mesa division and his department have been hiring many engineers to meet the requirements of ongoing and new contracts. Also, as with last year, although most of his work is pretty steady and routine, Max again has had to work extra on a couple more big projects that have taken a bunch of 12 hour day 7 day weeks. He sure wishes that things would slow down again.  When he’s not at work, Max still spends his Saturdays at the airplane hanger. He hasn’t flown much this year but when his hanger buddies bought a wrecked airplane to repair and sell, he spent quite a bit of his Saturday time helping them out. They hope to have that project flying again before Christmas.

 

Kerri’s situation at work continued to deteriorate, so she quit. Fortunately or unfortunately, depending on her varying perspective at any given time, unless it is complete retirement, she has yet to find her next calling in life. Kerri now spreads her Saturday and Sunday work at home over a whole week and doesn’t seem to complain a lot about having too much to do.

 

Just before Mom Kranz came to visit, son Scott moved to a Scottsdale apartment closer to where he works as a Computer System Network Administrator at the Scottsdale Culinary Institute. We think most of his spare time has been spent (happily) at his computer or with friends.

 

Daughter Kylene graduated from her Charter High school in February. After she spent most of the summer “hangin’ “with her boyfriend Aaron and their other friends, she began attending Mesa Community College, a local Jr. college just 4 miles from home. Until recently, she has also been working a part time job. 

 

This certainly could have been a better year but we are glad that most of us still remain relatively healthy and happy and are hopeful for a lot more fun next year. We are also hopeful that your 2004 will be better than ever as well.

 

Have a very, very Merry Christmas and a Happy, Happy New Year,

 

Love to you all,

 

 

Christmas 2004

 

2004 Holiday greetings from the Bishops in Arizona

 

Another eventful year has passed so quickly that, already, the memories are just a blur… Although we are doing well and have had a few gains, we’ve also had some pretty significant losses.

 

Max’s Uncle Jim, his mom’s brother, was diagnosed with cancer and, while he was able to keep his sense of humor to the end, he did suffer more than we would have liked in the process. Born on November 14, 1931, he died on August 5. Over the years, Max wasn’t able to spend much time with Uncle Jim and Aunt Sara, but he does have many fond memories of times with them and their kids while growing up and, though he will continue enjoying those memories, Max will miss Jim...

 

After 97 years, Kerri’s mom also had a rough time as she continued to experience the heart problems that began last year. A pacemaker helped for a while and Kerri went back to Onawa for a month to help care for her. With therapy and home health care she appeared to be getting a little stronger so Kerri came home with some hope for the better. Unfortunately, within a week of Kerri’s return to Arizona , on August 16th, Mom took a final turn for the worse. Kerri, Scott, and Kylene were able to make it back to for the funeral. We will miss the annual tradition of celebrating Mom’s birthday (November 9, 1906) and Thanksgiving in Onawa , Iowa with the Kranz family.

 

Max will also miss his dad’s Uncle Burton Tabor who had a farm near Bannister, Michigan . Burton was born on December 9, 1913 and died September 12 at the age of 91. Frequent family visits to the “Twin Oaks” farm during his childhood  leave Max with many good memories of times spent with Uncle Burton, Aunt Ester and cousins Gail and Jill. Max was fortunate, two years ago, to have had at least one last visit with Burton and his sister, Aunt Clara.

 

On a more positive side, although she occasionally threatens herself with finding a job, Kerri is still enjoying her early retirement. She decided to try a bit of gardening this year and the results have been very tasty. The nice thing about Phoenix weather is that it lets things grow and grow and keep on growing.

 

Max’s job is keeping him as busy as ever and, as with last year, though Boeing continues a slump on the commercial aircraft (airliner) side, the Mesa division is all military and his department has been hiring as many engineers as it can, as fast as it can to keep up with work demands. Recreationally, Max helped his hanger buddies rebuild a wrecked airplane that they bought on Labor Day last year and spent quite a bit of his Saturday time on that project until it was done and sold early this year. Although that project and a recent month long illness took time away from his ongoing new airplane building project, he and partner Doug Brown are back at that again and it is now beginning to look more like an airplane than just a pile of parts.

 

Son Scott’s job as a Computer Network Administrator at the Scottsdale Culinary Institute is going well. He still lives in his Scottsdale apartment but now has a girlfriend who moved in with him a while back.

 

Kylene is still attending nearby Mesa Community College and seems to be enjoying it most of the time. In addition to her boyfriend Aaron, she has lots of other boy and girl friends, one or more of who visit almost nightly and most of the weekend, including occasional sleepovers. It’s almost like having a big family.

 

Although she greatly misses Dad, Max’s mom is staying healthy and doing well. Fortunately for all of us, Brother Roger retired from the Post Office early this year and was able to move from California to live with her. Roger uses his motor home well and travels quite a bit. He and Mom took a month long trip to Michigan together this summer but, most of home together in Casa Grande, Roger and Mom do their best to keep busy with whatever comes along.

 

Brother Richard has moved into an apartment in north Phoenix and brought his son Joshua from Michigan to live with him. Richard recently took a different job at Honeywell, which has had him on the road to the Midwest a lot so we have seen less of him this year than we would have liked. Josh has a job at a restaurant not to far from where they live and he seems to like it and Arizona .

 

Happily for us, Brother Patrick and wife Raynee have returned to Arizona as well. They live in north around a lot, Patrick, with his many years of experience, has had no trouble finding work as a heavy equipment operator.

 

With the losses we had, this certainly could have been a better year but we are glad that

 

Have a very, very Merry Christmas and a Happy, Happy New Year,

 

Love to you all,

Max, Kerri, Scott & Kylene…  

 

 

Christmas 2005

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to All… 2005 Bishop News from Arizona

 

The years are getting shorter as usual but, in hindsight, it might have been good to have skipped this one altogether… At least the month of July…

 

Max’s health problems from last October and November have abated considerably but still persist. He’s not really sick but is uncomfortable much of the time with an occasional but chronic cough and an almost continuous postnasal drip. Medicine helps to control the symptoms but the insurance company has spent an awful lot of money on hospitals, doctors and diagnostic tests in Max’s quest to try and figure out what’s wrong,

 

Fortunately, Kerri, Scott and Kylene are feeling fine. Although we are pretty disappointed that Ky dropped out of school this spring, she has promised to go back next spring with at least a couple of classes. She did take a job this fall as a hostess at a local seafood restaurant and is doing well there and enjoying it. She also moved into a nearby apartment with a couple of girlfriends. The lease runs out in January so we’ll see how that goes… ;-)  For now, we’re empty nesters.

 

Scott is still doing well as an IT Administrator at Scottsdale Culinary Institute. So well that he recently bought his own Condo not too far from here. A bit bigger than a single guy needs but it looks like a good neighborhood to settle down in at the ripe old age of 36.

 

Kerri is not enjoying her early retirement as much as she’d like but knows it’s a whole lot better than working. At least until she finally figures out what she wants to be when she grows up.

 

As I hinted… July was not a good month. On the 3rd, Kerri got the sad news that her sister Naomi (Rusty) had died. Rusty was 70 and did have some health problems but we didn’t think that they were quite as serious as they apparently were. Added to that, on the 4th, Max’s brother Patrick was killed in a motorcycle accident. A real double whammy.

 

We thought about canceling but with vacations already planned, on the 13th, Kerri went to Iowa to be with family and Max went off to Michigan for the Bishop family reunion. The reunion on the 17th went well and was fun but Max learned that, in addition to his Alzheimer’s, Uncle Bill Cartwright had cancer and was only expected to live several months or, at most a few years depending on the results of possible therapy. Two days after that news, brother Rex went into the hospital with the failure of his only remaining kidney. He was still in the hospital on dialysis for what we thought was the rest of his life when Max returned to Arizona . Fortunately, we recently got news that some of his kidney function had returned and he is now off dialysis and feeling much, much better.

 

While in Michigan , Max stayed with Randy and Linda who were good enough to put up with him for 2 weeks. Max did have a great time at Aunt Sara Lee’s when she gathered as much of the Adams family as she could for a small reunion at her house on Lake Lansing .  He was also able to visit some familiar places, local neighbors and high school friends, which was nostalgic and fun.

 

While in Iowa , Kerri, Karmen and Julie enjoyed a sister’s week.  They went on a trip to Boone , Iowa and took the evening dinner ride on a train, which was a fabulous two and a half hours.  The countryside was beautiful.  They also visited some shrines in Missouri Valley and antique shopped.  They cooked up a storm and just enjoyed each other’s company.

 

Brother Richard still has his son Josh living with him and both are doing well. Josh has been hired on full time at Honeywell and we’re all happy about his success there.

 

Mom and Roger are doing well in Casa Grande and both have been traveling some. Sadly, they had to abort one trip to Florida together to return when Patrick was killed. Roger has made a couple of solo trips to California and another to New Mexico along with some local motorcycle jaunts and walkabouts. Mom flew back to Florida in October to visit her sister (Aunt Liz) who, very unfortunately, was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig’s disease earlier this year. Liz is resigned to her fate but all around her are doing their best to help her to be as comfortable as possible.

 

We are expecting and hoping that the past year and the year to come are good for you and yours and that all your wishes (including those pesky New Years resolutions) for the season will come true…

 

Have a great holiday…

 

Love,

Max, Kerri, Scott and Kylene

 

 

Christmas 2006

 

 

Christmas 2007

 

Of course, this year’s gone by as fast as they all do now at our age but at least, in a good way, it has been fairly uneventful. More good than bad, happy than sad…

 

This summer, out of the blue, Kerri’s long time hairdresser decided to switch careers and started a Laser body care business (skin rejuvenation and hair removal) and asked Kerri to be her Office Manager. She enjoys her new job most of the time but the new business has been a little slow at gathering new customers so she’s only working three days a week right now. Hopefully, after the first of the year, things will pick up.

 

Of course, a new job also required a new car so Kerri traded her old Chrysler Sebring in for a new Toyota Solara.

 

Kerri spent 3 weeks in May with her niece, Glenette in Arkansas .  They worked very hard to remodel the house Glenette inherited when Kerri’s sister Naomi passed away.  They also managed to have a really great time visiting and got some antique shopping in.

 

Kerri also went to Iowa in July for the annual Sister’s week with Karmen and Julie.  While there, they attended Julie’s oldest Granddaughter Stacy’s wedding in Kansas .  Kerri and Julie helped Karmen get her house ready for sale, as Karmen is moving to Kingsley , IA.

 

With some ups and downs, daughter Kylene has been doing OK as a server at a place called Redfish but when she went in on December 17th, she and her work friends were shocked when told to gather their things and leave.  The New Orleans style restaurant had decided to close its doors without notice. Heck of a time to put dozens of folks out of work but businesses seem to do that sort of thing often these days.  She did have some fun this summer when she and some friends spent a few days around the 4th of July at Lake Tahoe .

 

Fortunately for son Scott, though there have been some changes, the Scottsdale Culinary Institute is still keeping him employed as an IT administrator and he seems to be doing well.

 

Max’s job hasn’t changed much as, with the war on and all, the military side of Boeing continues to prosper. It’s the com mercial side that affects the stock price (and retirement fund) the most these days though so, if airliners continue to sell at their current and profitable pace, maybe Max really will be able to retire in about a year. He’s got several of his fingers crossed. Max still spends his Saturdays at the hangar and just bought an airplane project to help advance his career as an airport bum.

 

Max’s mom is doing fine and busier than ever. Brother Rex wasn’t doing well in on kidney dialysis in Michigan and was afraid he might not survive another cold Michigan winter so we decided to move him to Arizona . He couldn’t go more than two days between dialysis treatments so we flew him here and brother Roger flew back to pick up Rex’s wife, Ginger and daughter Melissa and drive them back with most of their possessions. They are now living with Mom and Roger in Casa Grande. Rex’s health is still not great but he is doing a lot better than in Michigan and the Arizona sun keeps him warm and toasty most of the time.

 

Melissa seems to have handled the transition most easily and is doing well in school and has many newfound friends in the neighborhood. And, after months of looking, Ginger just found what appears to be a good job.

 

Brother Roger had surgery at the VA hospital in Tucson on a worn out shoulder and is recovering nicely. With a bigger family in Mom’s house, Roger’s feelin’ a bit cramped but frequent day trips on his Harley or occasional longer motor home jaunts help him keep his perspective (sanity?).

 

We wish you all a very merry Christmas and happy New Year.  God’s blessings to everyone.

 

 

Christmas 2008...  No Letter

 

Christmas 2009

From the Max & Kerri Bishop’s

As always, each new year seems to go faster than the last and this one has been no exception.

January turns into December so quickly that it’s hard to remember what happened in between and when but there were some memorable events that I’ll try to put in order…

Max’s job situation is the same. Work is still good and steady but he is wishing for the retirement that was significantly postponed when his 401k turned into a 201k with the economic downturn. Max’s airplane was recently damaged when one of his partners lost control on a take off. No one was injured but com pleting the repairs will take about 6 months of Saturdays and a lot of money.

Max and Kerri drove a U-Haul van to Pella , Iowa to help move Kerri’s friend Marianne when she retired and then spent a week at Kerri’s brother Russ’s house in Kingsley , Iowa with Russell, sister Karmen and her husband, George. While we were there, Kerri’s sister Julie with hubby Lee came from Kansas and her brother Richard came from Wyoming to join us for a good visit.

Daughter Kylene found a part time job as a waitress at a nearby eatery called Kokopelli’s Winery and Bistro. She likes the work but there isn’t enough of it for her to get ahead much.

Son Scott kept his job but left his home and moved into an apartment when he was able to sell his house and get out from under a monster payment.

Kerri spent a month in Arkansas with her niece Glennette to help her recover from extensive surgery on her right foot to help correct some long time problems. While there, Kerri got to experience a true fall with changing leaves and all. There was also rain on all but 3 days.

Mom and Roger took a month long motor home trip to Michigan and, while staying at brother Randy’s, were able to see many neighborhood friends at a memorial service that Randy and wife Linda helped arrange for brother Rex, who died last October. They were also able to travel to Aunt Sara’s in Lansing to visit many of the folks on the Adam’s side of the family. On the way back to Arizona , they went by way of the upper peninsula and stopped to visit sister Barbara and her family in Iron River . Barb’s family is doing well and she and husband Stan were pleased when their son Trenton was recently married.

There have been some cutbacks at Honeywell where brother Richard works and he and many others there are now off one extra day each week without pay. He was able to make a couple of trips back to Michigan, one of which was for a memorial service for lifetime friend, Marty Pnacek, who died unexpectedly.

Fortunately, we have all been blessed with pretty good health in 2009 and hope that all of our friends and family will be as healthy, happy and safe in the coming New Year…

  Take care and be well…

 

 

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